
Texas GOP Rep. Tony Gonzales faces explosive allegations of an extramarital affair with a married staffer who later died by self-immolation, raising ethics questions during his re-election bid.
Story Highlights
- Regina Santos-Aviles texted a colleague on April 28, 2025, admitting her affair with Gonzales, confirmed by screenshot evidence.
- Santos-Aviles, a regional director, spiraled into depression after professional fallout and died by suicide on September 13-14, 2025, in Uvalde.
- Gonzales, a married father of six, previously denied rumors before text evidence emerged, but now deflects amid primary scrutiny.
- Primary opponent Brandon Herrera and state Rep. Wes Vidrell demand resignation, citing ethics violations and family harm.
- Scandal breaks on February 18, 2026, as early voting starts, threatening the GOP’s hold on the border district.
Affair Admission and Tragic Timeline
Regina Santos-Aviles served as regional director for Rep. Tony Gonzales in Texas’ 23rd Congressional District, covering Uvalde and the Texas-Mexico border. On April 28, 2025, the 35-year-old married mother texted a colleague: “I had affair with our boss and I’m fine.” The affair occurred during the 2024 election cycle and was known among staff.
Her husband, Adrian Aviles, discovered confirming texts and informed staffers. Bexar County Medical Examiner ruled her September 14, 2025, self-immolation death a suicide in November 2025.
Months before death by suicide, aide texted colleague she had an affair with her boss, Rep. Tony Gonzaleshttps://t.co/EINAq0sysQ
— Scott MacFarlane (@MacFarlaneNews) February 18, 2026
Professional Fallout and Mental Health Decline
After exposure, Santos-Aviles faced severe repercussions in Gonzales’ office. Staff reported she dropped from top employee to sidelined, with Gonzales canceling her arranged meetings and excluding her from Uvalde trips. In June 2025, concerns about her mental well-being reached district director Jalen Falcon.
Former staffers described her spiraling into depression amid the personal and professional isolation. This power imbalance in a congressional office highlights risks to subordinates, eroding workplace trust and accountability.
This underscores failures in leadership that conservatives expect from elected officials committed to family values and ethical conduct.
Gonzales’ Denials and Deflection
Gonzales, 45, married father of six, denied affair rumors in November 2025 at the Texas Tribune festival, labeling them “completely untruthful.” He dismissed October 2025 Daily Mail reports as “people throwing rocks.”
On February 18, 2026, after San Antonio Express-News published the text screenshot, Gonzales stated Santos-Aviles was a “kind soul” but blamed rival Brandon Herrera for smears via a “disgruntled former staffer.” He pledged focus on aiding President Trump’s border security efforts.
The San Antonio Express-News withdrew its endorsement, demanding answers. This timing aligns with early voting for the March 3, 2026, primary in a district Gonzales barely held last time by 400 votes against Herrera.
Calls for Accountability from GOP Peers
Primary challenger Brandon Herrera demanded Gonzales resign, accusing him of House ethics breaches, adulterous conduct with staff, potential taxpayer fund misuse, and public trust violations.
Herrera likened it to military misconduct meriting court-martial, warning of risks to Republican seat control. State Rep. Wes Vidrell, from the district, urged Gonzales to step down if true, prioritizing healing for Santos-Aviles’ family over re-election without remorse.
These responses reflect conservative demands for personal integrity among leaders, especially on family and ethical grounds, as voters weigh the scandal’s impact on district representation.
Sources:
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/tony-gonzales-aide-affair-texts-death-by-suicide/
https://www.texastribune.org/2026/02/18/tony-gonzales-staffer-fire-affair-text-brandon-herrera/














